Worldly happiness is the most secure way

world, many men, handsome, healthy, smart, rich. But no matter what type of man who, to pursue a career in the mood are the same.
living in this secular, in addition to physical pain and other than conscience, and all are self-inflicted pain. Always easy to fathom a blind man would imagine a lot of trouble come. If money is not much more attractive people, suffering; spacious family home did not matter, suffering; cause people not OK, the pain. If the pain has been enlarged to go, not a leader. The result is a hundred more harm than good. As the saying goes: the secular, like a mirror, you cry it cry, you laugh it laugh. Harmony is the essence of spiritual truth, and only a pure heart to capture the true living. However, men are often used to find the answers from the rules, used to rely on reason and mind to find the answer, then farther and farther away from his heart. Eventually, the men have become numb, to live more and more unreal, the mind is thus more and more discordant, and inner harmony will be reflected in the lives of themselves and others, the result is the heart of the discord led to the family, disharmony in society and the secular.
In fact, most of the men from the feelings of confusion and confusion, there is affection, love, have frustrated the cause, there is dissatisfaction on survival, with their own disappointment. Men do not think people really understand their concern. Most men all their lives in such a prison, used to it, do not numb the pain, perhaps being secular is the safest way, and then slowly think: This is life, men have to do is to accept it. Some men think, and there are expectations, but do not know how to fight, can not find the exit, do not want to continue to be eaten live. Yes, hope is a good thing, but how many men can have the hope of life to persist?
man living in the secular in fact know something good. Feel good, you will delight in the joy of others, willing to helping the poor, often on the minds of a sense of appreciation; feel good, it will with people, willing to live in friendship and hearts to a sense of pleasure often; feel good, will be open and above board, willing to open their hearts to human hearts often easy to sense. Men also learn some tolerance. In social interaction, suffer, be misunderstood, wronged things are always inevitable to happen. Faced with these, the most sensible man is to learn tolerance. Men will have a good tolerance, psychological quality. It not only includes understanding and forgiveness, but also demonstrate the tolerance and broad-minded man, strong and strength. Men will learn to tolerate self-discipline, and lenient towards others, which is equal to the placement of their psychological adjustment valve. Life is just a stage, which itself is not important what is important is that we must select and starred on stage what kind of role and content: Theatre, poetry, tragedy, drama, mime, opera, anything can be, even if a mess Hunhunee can, but the principle is: a man with a life choice and is willing to work hard to pursue.

man finally realized one day, and try to kiss his wife before leaving, to gentle tell her you love her. Rest of the time grabbed her hand to wash the clothes. Good weather to take her to walk in the park. Before going to bed to her talk about the company, on the way home to see interesting things. Occasionally, a woman patient and to listen to story, even if you are 4 or 5 angle of the angle of cabbage is not interested in a pound. She wore a new dress in time, a serious look at 2 minutes, then sincere compliment about her. If the skirt big, say you slim, and if a small skirt, and said that if the larger will be more beautiful. When shopping for his wife's hand or the clutch pulled her shoulders, because of this, she will feel happy. Women want to be in the care of the secular, are loved. Bit by bit gentle man must make the women in the secular aromatic smell. In fact, the happiness of a woman to be very simple. Man as long as the patience of a good woman, no volcanic hot, do not need to surging waves, perhaps trivial steady secular enough to make her happy life.